Sorry doesn't make dead man alive.However, sometimes sorry is said because one cannot afford to lose something... That's why some people always say, when you speak think and speak. When you act be alert..
There were many instances where few things hurt me and sorry did not make any change but after watching a movie " moments to remember" (Korean movie) I changed my way of life. In the movie there is a dialogue " Forgiving isn't that hard, It's just giving away just one plain room in your heart. i.e. Forgiving is giving your hate just a little room in your heart"
I agree...but sometimes you know the hurt is too much to bear. You might have forgiven that person but forgetting what happened is really difficult as it hurts you each day, each moment.
yeah I agree, but when the years pass on, you will realize its waste of getting hurt, treat like it never mattered. I completely agree with you, but what I am saying is also a truth. Now when I see those moments were I was hurt badly, I feel if those moments had not come in life, I wouldn't be what I am today. I learned to judge few things :D
Yes. learning is always there behind such hurt. You know Robin Sharma has said, Every hurt that you face is actually necessary to make you the person you are destined to be.
I have some issues with very basics. How do you get to know that other person is hurt beyond repair? And how do you know without trying that the other person will feel better after apologizing ?
We get to know because we are that person. The hurt is too bad to be repaired and sorry is the last thing you want to hear at that time. Want to understand from the other person's perspective.
Sorry doesn't make dead man alive.However, sometimes sorry is said because one cannot afford to lose something... That's why some people always say, when you speak think and speak. When you act be alert..
ReplyDeleteThere were many instances where few things hurt me and sorry did not make any change but after watching a movie " moments to remember" (Korean movie) I changed my way of life. In the movie there is a dialogue " Forgiving isn't that hard, It's just giving away just one plain room in your heart. i.e. Forgiving is giving your hate just a little room in your heart"
I agree...but sometimes you know the hurt is too much to bear. You might have forgiven that person but forgetting what happened is really difficult as it hurts you each day, each moment.
Deleteyeah I agree, but when the years pass on, you will realize its waste of getting hurt, treat like it never mattered. I completely agree with you, but what I am saying is also a truth. Now when I see those moments were I was hurt badly, I feel if those moments had not come in life, I wouldn't be what I am today. I learned to judge few things :D
DeleteYes. learning is always there behind such hurt. You know Robin Sharma has said, Every hurt that you face is actually necessary to make you the person you are destined to be.
DeleteI just wish others would also think like this .
I have some issues with very basics. How do you get to know that other person is hurt beyond repair? And how do you know without trying that the other person will feel better after apologizing ?
ReplyDeleteWe get to know because we are that person. The hurt is too bad to be repaired and sorry is the last thing you want to hear at that time. Want to understand from the other person's perspective.
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